ATTACHMENT

We always say that I'm very sensitive and emotional. Why are we like that? Is there any disease in us or do we like to do that? It is all attachment and nothing more than this. When we are attached with someone, we always have a fear that we may lose this/him/her or that thing. So what we do is we get attached to the thing or hold the thing so tight that it can not leave us. We do every possible thing that we should so that we may not lose it. It must be with us at any cost or we start to take things in the way which we call POSSESSIVENESS. We should understand that in this universe everything will demolish one day, it either be a person or thing. Once we understand this, our fear will end and we will enjoy the relationship and our life. Let's take an example: 1. A surgeon can do the surgery of thousands of people but he can't do the surgery of his own family just because he is attached with his family. He needs someone else for doing this.
2. A wife loves her husband so much that she's always having this fear that my husband must always be well or he should not leave me. So she is attached with her husband and suddenly if the husband says anything to her wife in a bad mood and manner then why does she get upset or hurt? It is because of this attachment.

We should detachably be attached with the people. So that when they need our help we are always there for them, but, if we are so sensitive and emotional then how will we be able to help them? It's like I hear someone's painful story and I get hurt because I am so sensitive, then at that time first we should heel ourselves or we can say that we need treatment to get out of it then only we will be able to support or console the other person.."I love you" and "I am attached with you" both are very different. So, we should detachably be attached with the people. Something which has to happen will always happen on the day defined so why are we having so much fear for that day? Why we are not enjoying the things that we currently have and why do we just waste our time thinking about something which is not in our control?

SELFTALK

In today’s world, when people are having problems and questions related with that problem, they are finding their solution every where. Be it from either friends, relatives or any other thing. They think that other people know the solution, somewhere its right that we are asking others and they might be very experienced people but how much can we be sure that the answers which will be given by them would be absolutely right because they can understand only our situation but not our problem and what we really feel at that time. So where should we go to find the solution of our problems.
"NO WHERE"...again in URSELF, just relax for 10 seconds and ask yourself that, is it right for me or am I right at my place or whatever the question you are having. You will get the answer quickly and that answer will be absolutely right because that answer will be given by your own soul which can never be wrong. There is no need to go anywhere or not even use your mouth or ears. Just create a thought (problem) ask it to yourself and you will get another thought (solution) at the same time. Because, everyone has a pure and beautiful soul, which always enlightens us. It depends on us that how much we follow it. If we always deny what our inner voice says, then it might happen that it stops talking to us but we can start to talk with our soul. So don’t go anywhere for finding the solution of your problem. Start SELF TALK you will get all the answers.:)

ACCEPTANCE

See people around you....Everyone is saying,I want to be happy,I want peace,I want love.....Who will give them happiness,peace,love.We always depends on others that they will say or do some kind of things which will be according to me then I'll be happy,or when the situation is going according to me so that I will be happy.....Will it happen that everything goes according to you ?...."NO"...other people and situation never goes according to you.It mean that you'll never be happy.So how can we happy?
Answer is...."Happiness,peace and love is not around you.It is in you,firstly analyze in yourself then u can see that." and the next things are people and situation...nothing will go according to you but it can go with you....you can change other people and situation but for this you have to accept all the things as they are coming"ACCEPTANCE".once you accept it then you can change it easily but firstly accept it.Because everyone is right in his/her place, what things make difference is our perception,our way of thinking to take that.So,for love,peace and happiness ,don't go here and there....It is within you. :)

YOU ARE THE CREATOR OF YOUR DESTINY

Dont think about your past and future,nothing is in your control.You are just drainage ur energy nothing more than this.Try to tell your heart and mind that don't think about past i m just wasting my energy and time.....and believe me when u motivate other people they listen u very carefully and then they apply things which u told them.....then y not your own heart listen and follow to u.Your thought is in your control then y u think about others ....if u want to be HAPPY then don't rely on other people that they'll say n do such n such thing then I will be HAPPY,"NO"...You are the creator....You are the king of your thought and DESTINY.Other people are just a stimulus which coming from outside what they say its their perception but what you will do after it.... depends on u.....it means RESPONSE is in your hand...then see the whole world is so beautiful....