We always say that I'm very sensitive and emotional. Why are we like that? Is there any disease in us or do we like to do that? It is all attachment and nothing more than this. When we are attached with someone, we always have a fear that we may lose this/him/her or that thing. So what we do is we get attached to the thing or hold the thing so tight that it can not leave us. We do every possible thing that we should so that we may not lose it. It must be with us at any cost or we start to take things in the way which we call POSSESSIVENESS. We should understand that in this universe everything will demolish one day, it either be a person or thing. Once we understand this, our fear will end and we will enjoy the relationship and our life. Let's take an example: 1. A surgeon can do the surgery of thousands of people but he can't do the surgery of his own family just because he is attached with his family. He needs someone else for doing this.
2. A wife loves her husband so much that she's always having this fear that my husband must always be well or he should not leave me. So she is attached with her husband and suddenly if the husband says anything to her wife in a bad mood and manner then why does she get upset or hurt? It is because of this attachment.
We should detachably be attached with the people. So that when they need our help we are always there for them, but, if we are so sensitive and emotional then how will we be able to help them? It's like I hear someone's painful story and I get hurt because I am so sensitive, then at that time first we should heel ourselves or we can say that we need treatment to get out of it then only we will be able to support or console the other person.."I love you" and "I am attached with you" both are very different. So, we should detachably be attached with the people. Something which has to happen will always happen on the day defined so why are we having so much fear for that day? Why we are not enjoying the things that we currently have and why do we just waste our time thinking about something which is not in our control?
ya i appreciate your blog, but ever you experienced this type of attachment in your life? you ever feel the difference of that attachment with some other? Both are having the same taste or what (regarding the happiness and satisfaction in your relation)? But before detachment...
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